Everyone belongs to someone but finding the right one seems to be a path that leads to heartbreaks, and mistakes that could have been avoided.Each week join AJay, as she peers into provocative topics people seem to avoid on Dating, Sex, and Love plus everything else in between, in the African modern society.If you desire a relationship that gives you all-round satisfaction despite traditional norms in Africa or you simply want great tips on Sex and Dating, then this is the Podcast for you.

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Sex On The First Date

This topic is inspired by an experience Ajay had, where she was flirting with someone and they unintentionally suggested that sex was a possibility. Ajay and her guest Jessica Fortunes discussed the implications of this and how it can lead to people...

Who is Your Spec

On this episode Ajay and her guest chat about dating specifications and if that has any significance in who you end up with.

Exploring Foreplay

On this episode of Date,Sex &amp; Love Ajay and her guest speak about foreplay and how it should be done.

Her guest discuss the importance of communication between partners, as different people have different preferences and ideas of what foreplay...

Does Dating Lead to A Relatioship

In this episode, the Host shares her experience with dating and marriage. She also had guest from the Africalypso Podcast who emphasize the importance of taking time to find the right person and not rushing into marriage.

They talk about using Tinder...

Between You & I : Part 2

In today's episode of Date, Sex and Love, I and my guest answered some of the questions we got from our listeners.
Join us on this ride.

Understanding Abortion: Unpopular Perspectives On The Controversial Topic Of Abortion

AJ and Ludic discuss abortion on the podcast Date, Sex, and Love. AJ introduces the topic, and Ludic starts off by saying that she has a lot to say on the issue and not to hate her for her opinion. She states that she is pro-life and believes that...

Long Engagement

In this podcast episode, we explore the concept of a long engagement in relationships. We discuss the factors that can influence the length of an engagement and the benefits and challenges that can come with a prolonged engagement period. Join us as...

Debunking Common Dating Myths

In this episode of Date, Sex &amp; Love, we explore common dating myths and debunk them. We discuss the impact of these myths on dating and relationships and provide practical tips for navigating them.Key Points:

- The Myth of "The One": We begin by...

Sex Tape

In this episode, Ajay and her guests share some intimate moments, and how a sex tape can help spicy up a relationship the pros and cons of a sex tape.

Relationship Deal Breaker

In this episode, Ajay and her guest explore the concept of “deal breakers” in romantic relationships.

we delve into the various reasons why people might choose to end a relationship based on certain values, behaviors, or actions.

Through interviews...

Living Together In A Relationship

Living together in a relationship refers to the decision of two people to share the same living space and build a life together.

This often involves merging households, combining finances, and navigating the ups and downs of daily life as a couple....

Breakfast In A Car

In this episode, the host Ajay opens up about her own personal experience with a difficult breakup. She shares a story about a time when she was dishonest with her partner and went out with a "Dark and Handsome" guy instead of telling him the truth....

Bae Allowance

In this Episode, Ajay speaks on girlfriend allowance and she has guests who have opposite ideas of what bae allowance is.

Listen to this amazing episode.

Introducing: Date, Sex & Love Season 4

Vulnerability, belonging, Joy.

The birthplace of Love. The shared beauty of belonging, courage, intimacy, empathy, authenticity, all the things we’re about on date sex and love.And Vulnerability has never sounded so good.

Join Ajay and her guests as...

Questions To Ask On A First Date

It might be obvious, but the easiest way to connect with someone is to get them talking about themselves, by asking about their hobbies, their interests… do they enjoy activities like sports, painting, spending time outside, reading, or dancing? Maybe...

Friend Zoned

In this Episode Ajay and Guess share detailed stories of their friend zone experience

Touch My Body

So you’ve got a steady partner and they are great. But sometimes, you’ve just got to *ahem* take care of yourself. Is this normal?

Or maybe you’ve walked in on said great partner doing the same thing. That can feel awkward at best and like a...

Ex-Files

In this episode of Date Sex & love, Ajay and her guest address the question of whether you should be friends with your ex. Find out more on this episode.

Pickup Lines

The best pick-up lines whether they’re cheesy, funny pick-up lines that’ll get someone laughing or clever pick-up lines that’ll make you stand out will make breaking the ice and getting the conversation started a little bit easier.

Plus, using...

Sugar Dating

Sugar dating also called sugaring, is a transactional dating practice typically characterized by an older, wealthier person and a younger person in need of financial assistance in a mutually beneficial relationship, usually for sex or companionship....

Knowing The One

In this episode, Ajay and her guest share how they found out that their partners were the ones for them. Listen to the Date Sex & love podcast on the Jamit.app

Virgin Guy

In this episode Ajay had her first virgin guy on the Date, Sex & love share some intimate moment moment. Listen to the more amazing episode on Jamitapp

Crush

Everyone has had a crush or two in their lifetime and boy oh boy does it feel like cloud nine whenever he/she walks in, a simple hi gets you all fluttering. But should it just be a crush or can it blossom into a lifetime relationship. On Today's...

Cheat Code

On This Episode of Date Sex & love Ajay and her Guest as they ask the question why do people cheat most especially men. listen to the Date, Sex & love Podcast on the Jamit App to find out more.

Ghost Mode

On Today's Episode Of Date, Sex & Love podcast Ajay is joined with the host of Letter to the Boyz podcast & Stories That Touch Podcast to discuss about Ghosting a term used when someone who you like or your romantically involved in stop responding,...

Season 3 Trailer

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Phases of Love

The season finale is here!
We hope you had a nice time throughout this season and you have been able to learn one or two things.
Listen to Ajay, our love doctor as she takes us through the four phases of love.

Long Distance Relationship

How do you manage a long distance relationship? Would you even opt for one if need be? 
Join Ajay and her guest on this enlightened episode as they discuss long distance relationship.

Celibacy

As much as we don't like to talk about it, SEX is an important aspect of relationships but the question is, would you opt for celibacy in your relationship?
Listen to this intriguing episode of DSL.

Kayanmata

Kayanmata originated from the Northern part of Nigeria. It refers to herbs or potions that act as sex or love enhancers for couples. 
Join Ajay and her guest on this episode as they debunk the myths associated with kayanmata.

Elationships

Is it possible to fall in love with someone over the internet?
It would appear that in some cases, the answer is yes. But what happens when an online dater pretends to be someone they aren't? 
Are the feelings of love valid?
Even some experts suggest...

Family Affairs

When do we draw the line with families interfering with our relationships?
Join Ajay and her guest Kiki on this episode as they dissect this issue.

Between You & I (Ft. Chiny)

Opposite Besties

Rom-coms like “When Harry Met Sally” or “Friends with Benefits” are sort of responsible for planting the misguided idea that men and women are incapable of being “just friends” without eventually falling in love or having sex.
On Today’s episode, I ,...

Money & Relationship

Money, they say makes the world go round but can it buy love? 

A lot of people have emphasized the need for financial gains in relationships for it to thrive even though there is some sort of truth in that, I can’t help but wonder why it seems to be...

Does Age Matter (Ft. Hubby)

Many times people say age is nothing but a number when they talk about their specifics in relationships, but, is it really just a number?
On today’s episode, I and my guest (husbae whom I dragged to join me) talk about if people are comfortable dating...

Orally Speaking

Yes... Oral sex is REAL sex which most people find pleasurable, let’s just say it’s how one gets to “taste” how sweet their partner is (hmmm yum)
Unfortunately not all taste is tasteful (think about it: Oral sex puts you into contact with skin and...

Introducing: Date, Sex & Love Season 2

Are you ready? 
Season 2 of Date, Sex and Love is finally here!
Get ready for an explicit session with me and my guests on issues of Love, Sex and everything else in between.
Be warned because it’s strictly rated R, with no mincing of words.
So sit...

Love at First Smash

Love is honestly a complicated emotion, but an emotion we crave for in our lives.
But how we stumble on it is what we are so unaware of, for some it's love at first sight, for some it started in friendship, but for me, it was a weird way. Ever heard...

Love at First Smash

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