A podcast tackling the most common, comical, and when we’re lucky, outlandish questions from r/relationships and more. Your hosts, Eleanor and Andy, mine the rich archives of Reddit to supply you with advice on dating, relationships, and love. 

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Did I Cross a Line or Did He?

u/kimkimkim1679 recieved a shirtless pic from her ex-boyfriend. She swears it was innocent, but now her husband's living out of a hotel and says she can no longer have contact with him. Did she cross a line or is her hubby overreacting? — Wanna hear...

Is It Weird My Girlfriend’s Ex Is Spending the Night?

u/mike213323 has a new girlfriend. She's good friends with her baby daddy and her ex plans to spend the night at her place for Christmas so he can see their daughter. Is it a reasonable arrangement or utterly inappropriate? —  and  — we’d love...

What Are the Odds I’m Dating a Cannibal?

u/Legitimate_Shop6258 has a new flame. He’s cute, and smart, and they have great chemistry. He also seems to want to consume her flesh. Is this just his dark humor or a precursor to a darker desire? —   to and  — we’d love to read ...

Did We Sabotage Our Marriage for Our Careers?

U/ThrowRa67129ka90ma works in a highly specialized industry. Her husband landed a job that threatens her career. Now she's asked him to move out. Did he sabotage their marriage or is she a corporate stooge? —  and  — we’d love to  on...

Why Doesn’t He Want Me To Get a Tattoo?

u/BudgetAmphibian3828 is amped to get her first tattoo. Her boyfriend? Non-plussed. Should she be worried by his lack of enthusiasm? — Subscribe to and  — we’d love to read your review on the pod! — Follow us on social  and email us at...

Should She Care About My Orgasm?

u/pineapplelover6913 has been in a #deadbedroom for 25 years. He and his wife finally had sex a few nights ago — he thought it was a lousy experience for the both of them, but she revealed she'd had multiple orgasms. Should he feel frustrated he...

How Much Texting Is Too Much Texting?

u/GalickBanger is sick and tired of sending good morning and good night texts to the women he's seeing. Is this the cost of modern dating or is the practice overrated? — Subscribe to and rate the podcast — we’d love to read your review on...

Should I Ditch My Stepkids?

u/ThrowRA_tribe loves his stepkids. He goes to their sporting events and hosts them at his house. The twist: he and their mom are divorced. Now his family and friends wonder why he's still in their lives. Should he continue co-parenting or end the...

What’s Up With Her Gram?

u/artistInDistr3ss hooked up with a girl at a concert and now she’s attached. His hang-up? He just got out of a long-term relationship. Should he call her out on her vaguebooking of their situation or simply cut bait? — Subscribe to and rate the...

Can I Clear My Wife’s Name?

u/pip9ball and his wife went on vacation with a couple they’ve known for decades. During the trip, his wife was accused of sleeping with the other woman's husband. The friendship is over and mutual acquaintances think it's true. Is it possible to...

Can I Forgive After I Caught Him Masturbating?

u/yeetaway456 caught her husband masturbating to a YouTube video. The catch: it was of one of their mutual friends. Now she's lost all attraction to him. Is it possible for her to forgive? — You can find Andy’s book, The Lost Migration, on , , or...

Should I Gift My Husband a Nude? featuring Kristen of “Dinky”

u/reissaaa kept a nude portrait that her high school boyfriend painted of her. Now she's married and wondering what to do with it. Should she gift it to her husband or leave the past behind her? — Kristen is the co-host of the “Dinky” podcast,...

Honeymoon Edition: Should I Take My Husband's Name?

And we're back! After a bout with COVID, Andy and Eleanor return with a fresh episode of the pod ... — u/lastnamethrwy wants her new husband to wear a wedding band. He wants her to take his last name. Now they're in a standoff. Should she give-in or...

Honeymoon Edition: Do I Owe My In-Laws an Apology? featuring Chris Chafin

u/psychological_Pin184 was on her honeymoon when her father-in-law dropped by. She and her husband decided to move to an Airbnb, but now his family thinks she's dramatic. Does she owe them an apology? — Chris is the co-host of "30 Years Later," a...

Honeymoon Edition: Can I Honeymoon Without My Husband? featuring Steve Hayton

u/boxbanana124 thought both she and her fiancé were saving for a lavish honeymoon. Now he says he can't afford to go. Can she take her best friend instead? — Steve hosts the podcast “Choose Love: Extraordinary Love Stories.” Find it on , , , or...

Honeymoon Edition: Does My Fiancé Even Want to Get Married?

u/Acrobatic_Use_547 got engaged over the pandemic, but her fiancé won't settle on a date. Does he have cold feet, or is he just being pragmatic?

Honeymoon Edition: How Do I Get Over a Bad Marriage Proposal?

u/jes3399 just got engaged! But, the proposal was a dud. How can she make sure her disappointment doesn't affect the relationship?

Does He Love Karate More Than Me?

u/nuzface wants to spend more time with her fiancé. Unfortunately, he’s really into karate and shows little interest in much else. Should she encourage him to put in more effort, or is this the beginning of the end?   Get in touch! Email us at...

My Roommate Hit On Me, Now What?

u/roommateargghhh was hanging with his roommate one night when she made a pass at him. Problem is, he’s already happily coupled. Now he sleeps at his girlfriends’ and his roommates want to know if he’s ever coming home. Should he just move out?

Can We Stay Together if He Does Drugs?

u/Aimeelzara is dating a guy who occasionally takes recreational drugs. For awhile, she didn’t think much of it. Now it makes her uncomfortable. Do they have a future if he won’t give ‘em up?

Should I Change My Perspective on Cheating?

u/throwRAcheater1212 was chatting with his girlfriend when the topic of cheating came up. She says she’d forgive him, he says he'd kick her out. Now, she’s livid. Should he rethink his position?

How Can I Get My Boyfriend to Shave?

u/sadfoodcontestwinner has been dating her boyfriend for a few years. When they first met he was clean shaven and got regular trims. Recently, he’s grown an unruly beard and barely concerns himself with his looks. Is it possible to get him back into...

Is He Right That I Need Therapy?

u/Few_Breadfruit_185 is hoping to work things out with a guy who currently “just wants to be friends.” After spending the weekend away together—and her sharing insight into her mental health—he says she should seek professional help. Is he...

Do I Date With the Odds Stacked Against Me?

u/miscreation00 is ready to start dating again. But as a single parent with a case of social anxiety—and a fear of communicating her sexual boundaries—she feels stuck. Should she hold-off or is it the right time to jump back in?

How Do I Break-Up On Good Terms?

u/Uzamiki has been in a relationship for a year, but knows it's not going to work out. Is it possible to break-up and still remain friends?

Is It Bad To Date Someone Who's Poor?

u/Nice_Plant_7513 considers her boyfriend to be poor, a guy with a very different idea of what's cheap and what's expensive. Can the relationship succeed even with their money differences?

Do I Dump Him After He Didn't Wish Me "Happy Birthday?"

u/ajjjjjee mentioned a few times that her birthday is coming up. The special day came and went, but the guy she’s dating never acknowledged it. Should she cut bait or try and work it out?

Should She Care About My Orgasm?

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